tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4526445805002364276.post1906069958515980837..comments2013-06-03T08:19:52.937-07:00Comments on The Colours of Life: The BarrierNiezamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08052453823416058786noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4526445805002364276.post-67404599066206921102010-04-30T00:57:52.342-07:002010-04-30T00:57:52.342-07:00Thanks for your feedback and comment.Never mind,it...Thanks for your feedback and comment.Never mind,it is ok for you to give a long comment, really appreciate it :)<br />I'm totally agree with you, no matter how hard and painful the break up process of loving couple,there are always have an option for forgiveness.Niezamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08052453823416058786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4526445805002364276.post-25499341490806600212010-04-29T22:46:10.310-07:002010-04-29T22:46:10.310-07:00Breaking up is a lonely process. It happens when t...Breaking up is a lonely process. It happens when two hearts resist 2b together, or a soul has found a new other journey that requires goodbye to the other one. No matter how painful and difficult the process is, one has to face the reality that although the love is gone, the rooms for forgiveness is always there.<br /><br />My ex never wants to keep in touch with me. I guess the memories we had kept hunting him till he couldnt gather the strenght to face the reality. Of course despite his grief, he is now happy with another girl. To me,the best way is to understand his condition because i believe he prefers to remain silent not because of the hatred feeling he has over me, but it is sort of a therapy to mend his broken heart.<br /><br />I myself try to avoid being close friends with married/engaged guys because i believe in courtesy of a relationship. Even if i do,it is not based on honesty/sincerity but on the names of responsibility and forgiveness.<br /><br />There are various ways 2cope with the stress of breaking ups but it's just the matter whether both you and your ex-es can accept it with an open heart. And if both have diffrnt therapy strategies, no wonder the issues/questions like "why he doesnt contact me?", "why she changes her hp number while i dont", "why he deleted me on FB while i'm okay with it", "why he didnt reveal her gf's name as if i wanna snatch him back" or "why does her new bf keeps her away from me while i never disturb the relationship" raised up.<br /><br />However, most people seem to forget that human beings are wise. They are given these options by God and many of them are applying them all =)<br /><br />Hey,Sorry for the long comment. Keep on writing. This is the entry in your blog that attracts me most! :pMs Syakirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04018631797235704893noreply@blogger.com